“Leftover Women Take Over the Marriage Market”

When you think about how women in our country are still second class citizens after all these years- women are still earning less than men.  Childcare is still underpaid.  Men can still pay off women they’ve slept with and become a president because the GOP cares only about money and power – we can still see some improvements over other countries.

Women in China who haven’t married by age 25 are called “Leftover Women” and are considered flawed and outcasts.  Recently “leftover women” did an art installation in the “Marriage Market”.  Ok, hope you didn’t just eat a meal because you might get nauseous.

The Marriage Market is a place families visit to find suitable wives for their sons. The women (under 25 of course) or their families basically write an “ad” with no pics, describing their daughters looking for a mate.

You might not be able to click on the video of the event- but it’s worth it to go to DailyGood.com and watch it.  Yes, it will make you a little sick, but also, you will admire these brave women who are putting themselves out there to say I’m not second rate, I’m not flawed, I’m a valuable person.

Please also remember in this tough holiday season that you are a person and you have value.  We don’t tell each other enough but it’s true.

I worry about life, our culture, our horrible issues in our lives.  I worry about you.  I want you to be happy and feel valued because you deserve it.  I worry about all those who have touched my life with their struggles.  I want you to feel whole.  I want you to feel loved. I want you to have hope for a better future.  I am here to help in any way I can.

 

DailyGood

News That Inspires

December 19, 2018

a project of ServiceSpace

Leftover Women Take Over the Marriage Market

No one should ever compromise the dignity of another human being.

– Sarah Addison Allen –

Leftover Women Take Over the Marriage Market

In China, a woman who is unmarried by age 25 is considered a “leftover woman.” She feels like an outsider, and in a culture with great respect for parents, she may feel like a failure. A group of such women went to the Marriage Market and put up large photos of themselves, and messages like “don’t give up love for suitability” or expressing the wish not to marry. Their fundamental message is “Don’t let pressure dictate your future.” { read more }

Be The Change

What societal pressures do you face? How might you deal with that pressure in a positive way?

COMMENT | RATE Email   Twitter   FaceBook

  Related Good News

Smile Big
Love Freely
Meditate
Give Back

What It Means to Hold Space & 8 Tips to Do it Well

One Teacher’s Brilliant response to Columbine

Are You Walking Through Life in an Underslept State?

People Helped You Whether You Knew It Or Not

Smile Big
Love Freely
Meditate
Give Back

When Someone Threw Coffee at My Face

6 Habits of Hope

Do Not Lose Heart: We Were Made For These Times

To Keep Company With Oneself

DailyGood is a volunteer-run initiative that delivers “good news” to 244,403 subscribers. There are many ways to help. To unsubscribe, click here.

Other ServiceSpace projects include:

KindSpring  //  KarmaTube  //  Conversations  //  Awakin  //  More

Advertisements
“Leftover Women Take Over the Marriage Market”

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s